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Monday, January 2, 2012
A Very Firthy Year
Well, 2011 has come and gone. With it goes a long list of goals made in the frosty hope filled wonder of January last year. A list that I just happened to glance at this last week to find that while I did amazingly accomplish some things, most fell by the wayside as they were not given more than a fleeting thought 12 months ago. It can be a little diminishing to the fresh New Year hopes when you see how similarly you felt last year and then think of how easily you just gave up.
Not that the whole year was a loss. Actually 2011 was not too shabby. I worked too much, played too little, and procrastinated just as often. But I did begin and end my year with Colin Firth, and when can that be considered a bad thing?
In February I was lucky enough to attend Oprah's Oscar After Party in L.A. I decided a few years ago that I would not land at LAX until I was going for a film industry meeting. I did have an exception if my request for red carpet bleacher seats was ever granted, but so far I'm 0-3 in that race. However, on a whim I signed up for Oprah's show and was first turned down. But then I received a second chance invitation. Crazy, expensive, and so not worth it for most people, I never hesitated. I was in. Luckily I have a fantastic mom who is willing to accompany me on my strange adventures. I'm not sure it was the trip of a lifetime for her, but there was a moment, sitting in the Kodak theater a mere 12 hours after the Academy Awards, when I could have died very very happy.
The King's Speech was a fantastic movie, my pick for Best Picture, so it was just icing on the cake when it was such a clear audience favorite that even the screenwriter, David Seidler, was present in the audience. Such a beautiful sound, hearing all those fans cheer for the writer of a film.
I wish I could say I used my renewed desire for screenwriting to finish a screenplay this year. Instead, I have a little more than a handful of pages of a very rough draft. But I resolve to do better this year and you never know, maybe someday I'll be back at the Kodak.
Until then, I will enjoy the Christmas presents I received from my siblings -- a Blu-Ray of the film that began my year...
and a very covetable mug ...
Even if I come to think of this Darcy ahead of Firth's,
I would settle for a Mark Darcy kind of 2012, especially as like Bridget in Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason, I truly believe that happiness is possible... even when you're thirty-three and have a bottom the size of two bowling balls.
Not that the whole year was a loss. Actually 2011 was not too shabby. I worked too much, played too little, and procrastinated just as often. But I did begin and end my year with Colin Firth, and when can that be considered a bad thing?
In February I was lucky enough to attend Oprah's Oscar After Party in L.A. I decided a few years ago that I would not land at LAX until I was going for a film industry meeting. I did have an exception if my request for red carpet bleacher seats was ever granted, but so far I'm 0-3 in that race. However, on a whim I signed up for Oprah's show and was first turned down. But then I received a second chance invitation. Crazy, expensive, and so not worth it for most people, I never hesitated. I was in. Luckily I have a fantastic mom who is willing to accompany me on my strange adventures. I'm not sure it was the trip of a lifetime for her, but there was a moment, sitting in the Kodak theater a mere 12 hours after the Academy Awards, when I could have died very very happy.
The King's Speech was a fantastic movie, my pick for Best Picture, so it was just icing on the cake when it was such a clear audience favorite that even the screenwriter, David Seidler, was present in the audience. Such a beautiful sound, hearing all those fans cheer for the writer of a film.
I wish I could say I used my renewed desire for screenwriting to finish a screenplay this year. Instead, I have a little more than a handful of pages of a very rough draft. But I resolve to do better this year and you never know, maybe someday I'll be back at the Kodak.
Until then, I will enjoy the Christmas presents I received from my siblings -- a Blu-Ray of the film that began my year...
Even if I come to think of this Darcy ahead of Firth's,
I would settle for a Mark Darcy kind of 2012, especially as like Bridget in Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason, I truly believe that happiness is possible... even when you're thirty-three and have a bottom the size of two bowling balls.
Sunday, September 18, 2011
If it wasn't too late, I'd try...
Acting and Directing, preferably not at the same time.
Hanging out in outerspace...
Monday, September 12, 2011
September 12th.
'That was a memorable day to me, for it made great changes in me. But, it is the same with any life. Imagine one selected day struck out of it and think how different its course would have been. Pause, you who read this, and think for a long moment of the long chain of iron or gold, of thorns or flowers, that would never have bound you, but for the formation of the first link on that memorable day.' -- Charles Dickens, Great Expectations
So begins the book One Day by David Nicholls, now a feature film I still want to see. Problem is, I always want to read the book before seeing the movie, and I've been a bit busy lately. So I started reading this when the movie was already out in theaters...and not receiving the best of reviews. Still, I found it somewhat serendipitous that I started reading this today; a book looking into the relationship between two people on one given day over twenty years.
The notion intrigued me because I have always had a strange connection with random days, days that to anyone else would be forgotten dates on a calendar, but that stick with me and remind me of where I was on that day however many moons ago when the day became infamous and ingrained in my mind.
I previously wrote about my acknowledgement of May 23rd, the date I graduated high school, but there are different dates that hold private memories in my soul, dates that normally go unnoticed to others, but receive some notice from me. Usually these are dates that were not chosen by me, but by the events that occur to make it memorable. I blushingly confess that more than once I have tried to make events occur on a certain day so that I could remember an anniversary on a date I like. Yes, I like the number 13, but even I know now that postponing a relationship for it to begin on that day is just asking for failure. Afterall, as Harry told Sally, "...when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible."
The past week has found me pretty emotional, crying at the most random things at the drop of a hat. I thought maybe the stress of a busy schedule was getting to me, ignoring the obvious answer right in front of me; September 11th. I couldn't fathom why the 10th anniversary of something was harder for me to handle than the previous years, but that seems to be the case. I wanted to write about it, to maybe work out what was happening in my head, but found it heartbreaking. The whole weekend was numbing. I came to the conclusion, that while I have had some horrible things happen to me personally in my life, events that should qualify as the worst day of my life, they still didn't compare to this date when nothing happened to me specifically, but still managed to change every aspect of my life as I had previously known it.
When reminiscing about life 10 years ago, I was reminded of something else, perhaps my saving grace, the event that happened after my world came tumbling down. On September 12th, 2001 I attended my first workshop for Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way.
Unsure whether class was still going to happen, my mom and I showed up in the basement of a church to find another group of people full of uncertainty. When the teacher shared her same doubts, she stated that her decision to continue the workshop as originally planned was due to the feeling that maybe now, more than ever, was when we needed to focus on living our most authentic and creative lives. We all agreed and thus began 12 weeks that changed the course of my life for the better.
I have tried to recreate the growth I felt during that first class a few times and usually start with gusto that fades before the 3 months are over. When visiting my mom in Pueblo in July, I went with her to the Friends of the Library bookstore where I found the follow-up book to The Artist's Way, Walking in This World. I happily purchased it, thinking it would be a great way to get me back into the swing of things, to jumpstart my creativity that has been stagnant for far too long. It was still sitting on the table next to my chair today, unopened and unexplored.
Shame and guilt kept me from cracking it open today, instead I googled The Artist's Way. And what did I unfold but Julia Cameron's new blog classroom! http://juliacameronlive.com/2011/09/12/and-so-we-begin/
So begins the book One Day by David Nicholls, now a feature film I still want to see. Problem is, I always want to read the book before seeing the movie, and I've been a bit busy lately. So I started reading this when the movie was already out in theaters...and not receiving the best of reviews. Still, I found it somewhat serendipitous that I started reading this today; a book looking into the relationship between two people on one given day over twenty years.
The notion intrigued me because I have always had a strange connection with random days, days that to anyone else would be forgotten dates on a calendar, but that stick with me and remind me of where I was on that day however many moons ago when the day became infamous and ingrained in my mind.
I previously wrote about my acknowledgement of May 23rd, the date I graduated high school, but there are different dates that hold private memories in my soul, dates that normally go unnoticed to others, but receive some notice from me. Usually these are dates that were not chosen by me, but by the events that occur to make it memorable. I blushingly confess that more than once I have tried to make events occur on a certain day so that I could remember an anniversary on a date I like. Yes, I like the number 13, but even I know now that postponing a relationship for it to begin on that day is just asking for failure. Afterall, as Harry told Sally, "...when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible."
The past week has found me pretty emotional, crying at the most random things at the drop of a hat. I thought maybe the stress of a busy schedule was getting to me, ignoring the obvious answer right in front of me; September 11th. I couldn't fathom why the 10th anniversary of something was harder for me to handle than the previous years, but that seems to be the case. I wanted to write about it, to maybe work out what was happening in my head, but found it heartbreaking. The whole weekend was numbing. I came to the conclusion, that while I have had some horrible things happen to me personally in my life, events that should qualify as the worst day of my life, they still didn't compare to this date when nothing happened to me specifically, but still managed to change every aspect of my life as I had previously known it.
When reminiscing about life 10 years ago, I was reminded of something else, perhaps my saving grace, the event that happened after my world came tumbling down. On September 12th, 2001 I attended my first workshop for Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way.
Unsure whether class was still going to happen, my mom and I showed up in the basement of a church to find another group of people full of uncertainty. When the teacher shared her same doubts, she stated that her decision to continue the workshop as originally planned was due to the feeling that maybe now, more than ever, was when we needed to focus on living our most authentic and creative lives. We all agreed and thus began 12 weeks that changed the course of my life for the better.
I have tried to recreate the growth I felt during that first class a few times and usually start with gusto that fades before the 3 months are over. When visiting my mom in Pueblo in July, I went with her to the Friends of the Library bookstore where I found the follow-up book to The Artist's Way, Walking in This World. I happily purchased it, thinking it would be a great way to get me back into the swing of things, to jumpstart my creativity that has been stagnant for far too long. It was still sitting on the table next to my chair today, unopened and unexplored.
Shame and guilt kept me from cracking it open today, instead I googled The Artist's Way. And what did I unfold but Julia Cameron's new blog classroom! http://juliacameronlive.com/2011/09/12/and-so-we-begin/
Serendipitous, no? I felt that stirring in the very bottom of my soul that occurs when I feel like something is aligning between me and the universe, nothing I can name, but something I know I need.
This little task may be just the thing to get me back to where I need to be, to the person who held onto the discovering of my creativity like my life depended upon it. Because the truth is, it does.
This little task may be just the thing to get me back to where I need to be, to the person who held onto the discovering of my creativity like my life depended upon it. Because the truth is, it does.
Saturday, July 2, 2011
2011, Part Deaux
Well, here it is, July 2nd. AKA the first day of the second half of the year. There are now less days left in the year than have already passed.
I would like to say my goals list is cruising right along, but sadly, the lazy hazy days of summer upon us have made my brain and ambition lazy hazy too.
I would chalk this up to my chosen word simplicity if I wasn't constantly *thinking* of what I have to do and just not doing it. Ah well, there is always Fall.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Summer summer summertime
Time to sit back and unwind.Happy 1st day of summer!
And it is also my first anniversary of being a vegetarian. Besides a couple slip-ups (where I was served items with or made of animal products without my previous knowledge) I have honestly found it quite easy to be a veggie gal.
Not as easy has been attempting veganism. But there is always something new to strive towards, regardless of others opinions on the subject (it's amazing how many opinions I receive on the subject while not lecturing or judging any meat eaters -- hey, I was one myself for over 30 years, no judgements my way!)
Not as easy has been attempting veganism. But there is always something new to strive towards, regardless of others opinions on the subject (it's amazing how many opinions I receive on the subject while not lecturing or judging any meat eaters -- hey, I was one myself for over 30 years, no judgements my way!)
I've been thinking about all the things I'd like to do this summer - camping, hiking, reading, and of course... lots of time spent enjoying the coolness of an air conditioned movie theater.
Summer fun list coming soon...
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Simplicity
Back in January my sister-in-law, who is an amazing blogger, had a post about using a word to describe your upcoming year http://karensshortstorylong.blogspot.com/2011/01/word.html - I liked the idea, but couldn't think of what word to use. I've continued to think about it off and on the past several months but no word ever seemed just right. Until today.Simplicity.
1: the state of being simple, uncomplicated, or uncompounded
2a : lack of subtlety or penetration : innocence, naiveté b : folly, silliness
3: freedom from pretense or guile : candor
4a : directness of expression : clarity b : restraint in ornamentation : austerity
I started out the morning the same as I have all year, taking my 30+ minute bus ride to work, reading something from the library- something on the brink of being due, so more pushing through to finish, rather than relishing in it, no matter how good it is (yay local authors!).
Today I got to the chapter on simplicity, using the books of Laura Ingalls Wilder. The Little House series was a favorite of mine growing up, it reminded me of how much I wanted to live like Laura, my bonnet flying behind me as I run across the prairie barefoot. Such a simple life sounded wonderful to me...until my mom would remind me that there was no television or inside plumbing. Eh, maybe not.
Then came lunch time. Heading out the door, my boss teased me, asking me where did I think I was going (me going anywhere is always a surprise - 99% of the time I'm glued to my desk) and when I responded that I had no idea, as I had to go get something from somewhere. I then performed my inner dilemma of decision making out loud -- "Udi's is good but expensive, so maybe Subway, but then I feel guilty for buying a sandwich when I could have made one at home, or maybe something downstairs but it's getting late so maybe they are no longer open or don't have anything good. But maybe..."I paused, as a look of genuine concern crossed my boss's face. "It's lunch; it's supposed to be simple, a time to relax! Go enjoy it, you deserve it." Okay. Udi's it is. As I approached the counter and looked at all the great and various vegetarian options I had in front me, I once again began to panic. Do I really want to try avocado and strawberries together? What if I hate the picked ginger on the eggplant pita and 8 bucks goes down the drain?
"Ma'am?" (yes, all this worrying has me going gray and gaining worry lines that push me into the ma'am arena at 32), "What would you like?" Panicked, I flick through the menu above the counter and blurt out "Grilled cheese". Yes, a special lunch, one that is supposed to be a luxurious treat, and I pick out the lunch I should have outgrown in preschool.
I get it to go, as I'm now lactose intolerant and I'm not sure I have pills with me (I do, of course, thrown in the bottom of my ever increasing bottomless pit of a purse) so I decide heading back to the office where an emergency stash of lactose awaits is best. My brown paper bag appears and I decide to at least take the longer way back, this is the first time I've been out in the middle of the day in a very long time.
As I get to my desk, I open my paper bag to find my grilled cheese panini on rustic bread (so see, a little more fancy than the white bread of youth) and crispy kettle chips. Udi's has Barq's root beer as a fountain drink, my number one choice in the main brand root beer war, so I take a sip, swallow an enzyme, and take a bite of ooey gooey golden cheddar goodness. Aah. I decide to watch a little of the video I've been listening to at work, the latest Best Actress in a Comedy Emmy nominees talking about their craft. The enjoyment of this simple moment is overwhelming. I am literally brimming with happiness. At least until my afternoon staff meeting.
I get it to go, as I'm now lactose intolerant and I'm not sure I have pills with me (I do, of course, thrown in the bottom of my ever increasing bottomless pit of a purse) so I decide heading back to the office where an emergency stash of lactose awaits is best. My brown paper bag appears and I decide to at least take the longer way back, this is the first time I've been out in the middle of the day in a very long time.
As I get to my desk, I open my paper bag to find my grilled cheese panini on rustic bread (so see, a little more fancy than the white bread of youth) and crispy kettle chips. Udi's has Barq's root beer as a fountain drink, my number one choice in the main brand root beer war, so I take a sip, swallow an enzyme, and take a bite of ooey gooey golden cheddar goodness. Aah. I decide to watch a little of the video I've been listening to at work, the latest Best Actress in a Comedy Emmy nominees talking about their craft. The enjoyment of this simple moment is overwhelming. I am literally brimming with happiness. At least until my afternoon staff meeting.
On the bus ride home, I finish the simplicity chapter, though my afternoon ride tends to get a little sleepy for me, usually because I'm up too late the night before for no good reason. After trying to get into a new chapter and doing the embarrassing nose dive drift off into the book, I decide to put it away and look out the window. It was a beautiful day. The clouds were spectacular; so many little puffy white clouds dotting the expansive sky. Normally it is either clear blue skies or big thunderheads, at least when I bother to look up. But today's sky was like those displayed in art masterpieces; just the right arrangement of blue and white. The mountains in the distance looked amazing, so green in the front and the tallest mountains in the back capped with snow. So much beauty just waiting to be admired; so much beauty I usually ignore.And that is when it hit me; I have spent so much of my life trying to avoid being simple. Everything always has to be more extravagant and majestic to me; I have looked at simplicity almost as a bad word in the past. But lately I have found myself trying to simplify things, clear out the clutter, let more things go. Because sometimes it just gets so overwhelming, everything begins to be too much. It doesn't have to be that way. It shouldn't have to be that way.
I stopped at the store on my way home to buy some good bread and some basil. Together with my tomatoes, olive oil, salt, and garlic I already had at home, I made my favorite meal - bruschetta. It is still mind boggling to me how much I adore this food, especially when in normal circumstances I am not that fond of tomatoes. But something in this combination just makes it so simple, but the taste is so complex - the crunch of the bread with the soft squish of the tomatoes, the richness of the garlic with the lightness of the oil, the peppery bite of the basil balanced with the enhancement of the salt. Sheer perfection.
When I decided to try to let a few things go, it was amazing what happened. I came home to create a fantastic meal, got to spend time chatting with my bestie on the phone and making plans to get together this weekend, regardless of busy schedules, the Boston Bruins won the Stanley cup...okay, maybe that last thing had nothing to do with me, but I did finally get to watch some major hockey action, something that I let fall to the wayside most of the season. And I wrote this - probably the thing I put off the most that I wish I did everyday - write, and not because I have to, or feel obligated or guilted into it -- writing because I want to.So there it is, for all it is worth, being that the year is already halfway over. But I'm not going to worry about it. I am going to try and enjoy my word for the rest of the year, and hope that it brings some simple goodness into my life. I will not even try to worry about finding a word that describes me, like in Eat, Pray, Love.
I will try to occassionally use another word from that story, probably my mother's favorite word/saying: Il dolce far niente - the sweetness of doing nothing.
Gotta love those Italians; they certainly know how to live well. What else can you expect from a place that creates masterpieces like bruschetta?
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